Our
Judgments about others can spoil the quality of our life. We enjoy less when we
judge.
Mother
Teresa said we do not have time to love if we judge others.
There
is a famous quote that says: "Great Minds Discuss Ideas; Average Minds
Discuss Events; Small Minds Discuss People"
Life
is literally 1000 times better when you aren’t judging others. You begin to use
that energy to create great things in your own life, thus becoming an overall
better person. ❤
There
have been several occasions people have judged me based on my leg and look.
Oh
no, you have man legs, your leg is so big. Some will say behind me - She can't
even see her size in the market, at night I always cry 😭when I am alone. Sometimes I tell
myself why not cut this leg and just have peace, why not this, why not that.
Life was so horrible for me and sometimes I feel like running away from my
home. At some point, I felt like killing myself.
When you judge other people without wanting to
know the true story behind their actions, is usually when there is something
inside of you, that is so broken that if you found out what you believed about
them was a lie, you wouldn't want to accept it or make amends.
Let's stop judging others, and relieve them of the heavy
burden they are carrying on their shoulders because of us.
Everyone is different and has something about them that
makes them who they are.
Many people judge. It’s hard for some to stop when it’s
human nature but it’s not fair at all. That shouldn’t be an excuse anymore.
The world is changing and so are people. There are too
many people that are being bullied daily for being themselves.
People should not be castaway for the clothes they wear,
the color of their skin, the way they look, their sexuality, their culture,
religion, or anything else. It’s our job to adjudicate and have a stigma against
people. We need to stop it.
👂When we are judging everyone and
everything, we are learning nothing. Absolutely nothing.
Never
judge anyone by the opinion of others and don't bring up the past of a person
who is trying to change their future.
Today
some still judge people based on what is seen on the outside of the way they
act, talk or walk. Sometimes the best personalities are those that people can’t
understand or don't want to.
It’s
good to hang out with other people that you aren’t used to hanging out with to
get different opinions and views of the world. You don’t always have to hang
out with someone that thinks like you or views align with yours.
Everyone's
views will not be the same but that’s okay. We don’t all have to be the same,
not at all because that would make the world a boring place. If you don’t agree
with another person, you don’t have to. Just don’t be disrespectful to them and
act like your way of thinking is the best way.
Hello! That style of thinking won’t work. You’re not perfect and you’re not God, so don’t act like you are above others.
Everyone you meet is fighting their own
battle, people are allowed to be weak sometimes and make mistakes and people
are allowed to be different. It doesn't make them "wired or wrong".
In fact, I have learned that some of the
nicest people have tattoos and piercings all over their bodies and some of the
most judgmental people go to church every day.
As human beings Feeling judged by others is one of the most hurtful
things we can feel sometimes, without thought or notice, we judge people as a
reflection of what we feel or think about ourselves.
If you find yourself constantly judging others, have you ever stopped
and considered why you judge others? Is it out of habit? Perhaps jealousy? Or
is it an unconscious behavior? Regardless of the reason, focusing on the
negative in someone only breeds negativity in you.
Once you stop focusing on the flaws in someone else, you can start
empathizing and even start appreciating other people’s qualities, opening
yourself up to all the great things they have to offer.
Yes, in the past I used to judge people all the time, but I judge mostly in my head or to my friends but that’s when I was younger and didn’t love myself as much. I realize what a waste of time and energy to judge someone. Well but the fact is we do need to form deductions from the behavior of the people before us so that we can protect ourselves and plan our actions better. But we must avoid misjudging anyone on the basis of what others say rather than what we think!
I think people that judge a lot don’t completely love themselves or
just think they are better than everyone. I can understand if it happens in
your head once in a while because you can’t always help it. However, if
everything you have to say means or judge someone for being themselves, that’s
a problem.
Also, a lot of people that judge swear they are perfect or get
offended when someone else does it to them. Sometimes they take it up and
come out in the form of big problems which can later cause issues.
Hello, why should you judge, and when others do it to you its problem? It
hurts or offends you when someone does it, but you constantly do it to others.
Seems like something a hypocrite would do. Look I just judged you. It makes you
feel a way that I did right.
Judging and criticizing others will destroy your happiness. Don't waste
your Life Energy in Judging Others.
“Can you see what she is wearing?”, “She should have stayed at home if
she was going to rock her hair like that“, she's too fat, oh no she sounds like
a man, she looks like a boy, why is she acting like a child? He can’t go out
with us can’t you see his big head, See her coming down from that man cars hope
it’s not what I’m thinking? I saw him yesterday at the front of the hotel.
Hello! Does that make the person a sinner?
That is not of your business. It does not affect your life in any way,
so why should it matter to you. I don’t understand how people constantly judge
and talk about others when there are so many more important things to do.
A lot of people always end up having bad days because of all the unnecessary talks and thinking that add no value to their life. We need to be more open-minded and try to understand where people are coming from rather than judging.
The psychological and emotional part of it really affects people. This is very
important because the bullying rate is really high. People are killing
themselves because of how others treat and judge them.
Suicide is
at the top for the cause of death for young people today. Some of them may have
done it for reasons but the majority is from bullying.
Why can
some famous people get away with doing something but when you see a regular
person you judge them for it? It’s only acceptable when certain people do it
but not others. That’s not fair.
I don’t
expect you to stop judging right away when that’s just a part of you but
try. We need to learn to love and accept each other no matter what. When
you show people that you accept them and are not judging them it makes them
feel so good about themselves. It makes them feel happier than they are
accepted despite being different from you. Maybe if we all tried to judge less
then fewer people would commit suicide and be happy.
We all
want to be loved and be accepted. We won’t always agree but try not to judge
someone for who they are or their views. Your style will not be what another
person likes. If you can't stop judging others, chances are you also judge
yourself harshly and have a lot of limiting beliefs and counter intentions that
block your manifestations. This seemingly innocent behavior can be destroying intimacy in your relationships. The only true way to manifest your dream
life is to stop judging others and yourself and unleash your true personal
power.
When you
see people for the "value" that they have, what you are doing is
subconsciously seeing yourself as a “value”. So the more you judge others, the
more you also will be subconsciously judging yourself.
The next time you think of passing an unrighteous judgment regarding someone, think of
your judgment as a bitter cup if the same was given to you.
My advice
Dear friends, let's try to look at the world and people more positively rather than negatively. It would make the world a better place.
Everyone has untold stories of
pain and sadness that make them love and live a little differently than you do.
Stop judging, instead try to understand.
Let’s stop the judgment of other
people. Instead of being critical of people, we’ve never met, let’s be open and
accepting of others.
What would you do if another person
judged you? How will judging others get in the way of truly knowing someone?
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