When all the parks, grounds, libraries were available
to me I didn't value them, now understand what’s the importance of them. Plenty
of resources were available to me, but I give excuses. I understood now that what I had was more than
what is needed to do any task.
When I was with my dear friends, sometimes, I would argue
with them. It was like I didn’t value their presence. I thought I would not be affected
by their absence or presence, but I realized I was wrong.
In short, life has gifted me with more than I need to
remain happy. I used to complain about some adjustments that I needed to do,
but now even if there are many things to complain about, I never complain.
When I played games on the floor, I wished I played them
on the laptop. Then I played on a laptop and I wished there was a more interesting
game. I realize I didn’t live in the present moment, but now I know that those moments
are the most interesting ones. Each
moment is worth living to the fullest. We should never postpone happiness.
Welcome back to feli-inspiremyworld ! Hope You stay
safe and feel relaxed wherever you’re, glad to have you here again.
Life is Never Certain - Everything can change in a
heartbeat. What you thought of as safe is suddenly not something you can rely
upon anymore. That is why it’s best to stack your deck with as many powerful
cards as possible.
Dear Reader, no doubt that 2020 has been a tragic year
but it taught me so many life-changing lessons and some of them are as follows:
Change your way of thinking and your life will be
completely changed! If you have a negative mindset then you'll only attract
negativity but if you think positively then your life will be full of optimism.
Be passionate about your dreams! You can fulfil your
dreams only when you show some kind of passion towards it. If you really want
to achieve something in life take some action and be enthusiastic about that.
Read self-help books for more improvement and make
sure you implement those theories in your life too!
Be grateful for the things that you currently have.
Don't take things for granted because you never know what is temporary and what
will be permanent!
Don't be disappointed by failures instead of learning
from them. If you'll always succeed in everything then you will not learn new
things in life.
Be kind and generous towards others because kindness
is the most impressive gift you can give to others.
Each day is a new beginning so let go of your past and
live in the present by learning new things for the future.
Be prepared for every situation because life is
unpredictable so you might never know what will happen tomorrow!
Grooming matters. Your dressing sense tells a lot
about your personality. Wear nice shoes, decent clothes, and attractive perfume.
Love yourself- truly- self-loathing is futile and
nothing but a waste of life.
Your time will come when it comes, don't rush
anything.
Anyone can leave you at any time- the only person you
truly have is yourself. Don't let your relationships compromise your goals in
life.
Always keep moving forwards in life- don't let any
person/ situation hold you back.
You won't be good at every hobby right away, invest
yourself in things till you master them.
Smile often. It is a powerful weapon; you can break
the ice with it.
Don’t argue too much with people. It drains your
energy spoils your mood and instills negativity.
Practice meditation. It is a proven life-changer. It
is a good way to tame your monkey mind and stop mental chatter.
Make time for the sunset. Believe me, your worries
will fade away in a fraction of seconds and you’ll feel grateful for the Earth.
Eat healthy food. Eating junk food once a week is fine
but avoid it as much as you can as it can deteriorate your health in the long
run. Also, eat seasonally.
Sleep with the moon and wake up with the sun. This
will help you to align with the rhythms of nature.
Spend time with yourself for at least 30–40 minutes a
day. You’ll know yourself better.
Have some me time and do whatever you love! That will
give your immense amount of happiness.
Explore new things because sticking to the same
schedule every day will bring boredom in your life.
Keep your expectations from yourself instead of
expecting from everyone.
These are some life lessons that will stick with me throughout my life and I hope I'll follow and implement them with full sincerity ❤️.
The year that taught me - life is dynamic, it can
change in a moment, how we come up with that moment is what makes us champion.
2020 taught me the true importance of life, it can turn you upside down in a moment. Now you are alive, you can't predict what will happen in the future, so never do tasks that don't align with your dreams. Never wait for the final destination to arrive, the journey is what counts.
INVEST IN YOURSELF: This is the most important lesson that I have learned in 2020. The lock-down period, the corona-virus pandemic, people losing jobs, struggling to meet their daily needs, fighting mental health issues have all made me realize this. Those who invest their time, money, and energy on themselves will always be far better than others.
If you have made yourself financially independent you
can get the best treatment for yourself and your loved ones. You do not have
to fear every moment about the lack of money. If you are financially sound you
do not have to think about how will you stay at home for long. You do not have to
fear your family staying hungry.
If you have made yourself capable of living a life
that revolves around how you can better yourself then you will not be afraid of
the times when you have to live alone. In fact, you will start loving your own
company. If you have certain hobbies you will even be happier being alone and
developing yourself. You will not have the mental health issues that people
nowadays are having.
If you are not dependent on a fake life of social media wherein you only enjoy uploading numerous pictures of the food you eat, the places you go to, the people you meet, etc. you will certainly enjoy being alone.
You will feel a sense of calmness. All chaos will
disappear because you will not have time for the nonsense going around you. You
will have your goals to achieve, you will have your own work to do.
All this will take you places. When you develop
yourself, you will have a sense of confidence and a sense of purpose that will
make life happier. This is what I have realized during this period. Focus on
yourself!
Remember this! Not everything will be covered in your
school syllabus. You will have to learn things by yourself and you know what
the fun part is? It is not as difficult as it looks.
In the end, I just want to say that I was able to figure out who and what do I need in life. I was able to clear the confusion and was able to prioritize things. And that makes me feel satisfied!
Are there more other thoughts you would like to share with me and others? Feel free to drop your comment below.
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