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Relationships are intended to boost our "happy quotient." The first relationship has its own set of expectations, hopes, dreams, fantasies, flaws, misunderstandings, and so on. It does, however, reveal who we are and what we want from a relationship. Furthermore, a breakup strengthens us.
After terminating their first relationship, I've watched several of my friends mature. Girls, on the other hand, always take longer to recover from a breakup. So I've decided to devote this article to all of the gorgeous females around the world because I feel that every lady is unique and deserves a man who will bring out the best in her. A girl must learn to love herself and the present moment before considering any future relationships, because self-love is the key to discovering true love.
I got this prompt and wrote this letter months ago but I was waiting for the right time to post it here and I guess that’s now.
My biggest question is have we met? If we have then it will be interesting to get to know you in a new space and a new light. If we haven’t then hi. My name is felicia.
I rewrote this several times because I wanted to convey exactly what my heart was saying without losing any of it in translation. My mind and heart often speak different languages, with my mind trying to figure out why I'm sending a letter to an unknown being and my heart clearly comprehending that you and I were destined to be together.
I'd like to include all of the qualities that make a relationship worthy of lasting forever in an open letter to my future boyfriend. Here it is:
My Dear Future Boyfriend,
I have seen my share of immature first loves and the painful heartbreaks that follow. When I look back now, I feel that I have grown up. I know my priorities in life. I know myself and I am deeply, madly, and passionately in love with myself.
At the moment I don’t want a boyfriend. I don’t want to flaunt among my friends because I already have an awesome life.
But one day in my future I will need someone. Someone who can complete and compliment me. Someone who trusts me. Someone who understands me. Someone who is as strong as the wind to fight for me. Someone who is as soft as the breeze to calm me. Someone who is just there beside me, with unspoken words, with the unsaid promis to have the best talks in silence. Someone who shares my grievances.
1.Will you be the one to stick around?
I'm looking for someone who will forgive me for every argument I've had. Someone who needs my presence in his life. Someone who can make me sprint down that never-ending road, based on trust and patience, with nothing but love and a desire to be the best for the best.
I'm looking for someone brave enough to kidnap the princess from her own self. Someone who sees my actual inner core beneath my figure and outer appearances. Someone who connects with my spirit by looking me in the eyes.
Someone who allows me to be stupid and childish. Someone who strengthens me daily before I go to work. Someone who is my friend to support and understand me with my ways. Someone with whom I am free to be my own self.
2.We shall define love together.
Everything about love appeals to me. I enjoy living my life in the pages of The Notebook. I'm wondering if someone will choose to love me like that one day. I'm hoping to have the opportunity to write my own, and it would be fantastic if I could do so about you. I'm a hopeless romantic, to put it that way. Obsessed with the most insignificant acts of affection, such as writing a letter to a man I've never met. I enjoy seeing people in love and I enjoy loving others. Make them smile, surprise them, and show them how much you care.
I love music. I love musical arrangements and I’m honestly inclined to one particular sound. In my head, I can play the violin, the guitar and every other instrument. I like meaningful lyrics and melodies that calm the soul. I also love to read and write. Spoken word is my first love but you’ll be a close second.
I don’t like ice cream so we can’t have ice cream dates, I’m really picky with food and so me deciding where we will eat will probably take a long time, or become repetitive. You’ll have to remind me to eat because I’m not the biggest fan of food.
I want someone who can define love in my life. Love – as pure as the snow, as pious as the divine, as strong as the mountains, as beautiful as the stars twinkling above.
I'd like you to know that I'm a pleasant person. I enjoy seeing others smile and do my best to ensure that everyone in my immediate vicinity feels at ease. Because I'm an empath, I'm sensitive to the feelings of those around me. As a result, I am concerned and will continue to be concerned for you.
I'll constantly be aware of how you're feeling. I'll be right there when your thoughts are overburdened or the sun in your life isn't shining as brightly. Through each and every emotion and thought. The number of times I assure you that I am there for you will become irritating. Believe me when I say that I will be there for you.
I have a tendency to be bashful around individuals I like, so please don't be offended if I appear quiet around you. Believe me when I say that my heart speaks a thousand words every second and my head can't keep up, but we'll have to make do with the stillness for now. I enjoy being reminded that I am appreciated. Don’t be surprised if I glance at you ten times a day asking you if you love me knowing perfectly well you do.
When we are together, you’ll bring me joy. You’ll make me happy even though I know you’ll annoy me sometimes. You won’t want me to take naps when I’m tired because you’ll want to spend every second with me. I’ll take those naps anyway knowing you’re right next to me. I’ll learn to love you in a language that’s tailored just for you. You will make me feel safe and comfortable. I won’t be afraid to talk about what scares me or makes me uncomfortable because you’ll be my sanctuary.
I'll always be curious about what's going on with you. Tell me about the high points of your day as well as the low points. Send me any photos you've taken recently so I can memorize them and see you with my eyes closed. Tell me about the things that make you happy and unhappy. I'd like to be your biggest cheerleader, so please share your victories with me. I want to be your biggest supporter, so tell me about your losses.
Tell me about your craziest fantasies and dreams. Every wild notion. I pledge to always encourage you to move forward, even if you don't want to. I'll always pay attention. I may not always know what to do or say, but I hope that my presence will be enough to soothe any storm. You'll be my absolute favorite person on the planet. When I'm joyful, I'll run to her, and when I'm sad, I'll run to her. I've never had someone that made me feel at ease, so I hope it doesn't bother you if I insist on having you around all the time. Every day, every second, and every time I get the chance to hold you, you'll be in my prayers, in my heart, and in my arms.
You’ll read through things I write or actually help me write. You’ll want to read all your favorite books with me. If it so happens that your music taste makes me wonder what planet you’re from, I’ll want you to take me there just so I can try to understand you.
I hope our relationship will help us grow and become better people as we intentionally work on ourselves each passing day. I hope I wake up each day, choosing to love you when you’re right next to me or miles away. We will have all the conversations, the hard ones, real ones and even the sad ones I run away from because life is more than just the safe bubble we will create for ourselves. I will be good to you and good for you and I hope no one has to read this letter after you because you will be all this and more for me. I hope you will be on the last page of my notebook. The part where we grow old and die together.
Yours,
Felicia future Girlfriend. .
I haven’t written like this in a while and I guess I missed the poetry, the imagination and all that. Clearly I have watched countless romantic movies. If you think you’re the person I’m writing to, please let me know.😃😂😐😍 Also, what is one thing you’d like your future partner to know? Please let me know in the comments!
Happy Valentine. I hope the article has helped you in one way or another. Thank you for reading, I’ll be back with another article. Stay tuned.
Love,
Felicia Xx